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My Hallie Priscilla. Unique fashion sense, desperately wants to live in a purple house.  Loves skunks and fruit bats.

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Friday
Oct292010

Being a Priscilla

“I know everything because I’m a Priscilla.” Hallie told Sophia. I could tell she didn’t expect Sophia to believe it, but it was fun to try and worth a shot.

Sophia, who has begun to recover from her disappointment that she is not a Priscilla, but a Katherine, wasn’t buying it.

It was a silly, short, and typical exchange. Hallie Priscilla Cozzens is enormously proud of her middle name. I was worried when we chose to name her after my mother that she wouldn’t like it.  “Priscilla” is unfashionably old-fashioned. More flowery than Edna, but not quite a classic like Elizabeth.

But I discovered a funny thing about naming a child after a beloved and deceased parent – I couldn’t yell it.  It felt wrong to use Hallie’s middle name to let her know when I was really, really mad or insistent on her doing something.  That would have been sacrilege. Instead, when I say “Hallie Priscilla,” the sound is full of affection.  I am smiling. The addition is a mark of tenderness.

Sure, I’ve told her that it was my mother’s name, but that doesn’t have any meaning to her yet. She only knows that being a Priscilla makes her special.  She also knows she’s not the only one – she has a cousin with the same middle name, and together they form an exclusive club.

Being the imaginative little person that she is, Hallie believes Priscillas to be very smart, irresistibly charming, funny, and tough. Tonight she, Lizzy, and Sophia were play-fighting and Liz decided she wanted to quit.  Hallie said, “Priscillas never stop fighting!”

No, I haven’t told Hallie much about my mother, but I think she’s getting the essence of who her grandmother was all by herself.  Throw in creative, a little stubborn (okay, maybe a lot,) hard-working, and good – that was my mom.

There is no better person for Hallie to pattern her own life after.

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Reader Comments (3)

I loved this! Perfectly well said.

October 29, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterShay

Thank you. I always know I did good when you say you like it.

October 29, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterStephanie Cozzens

I think it's sweet that Hallie feels kindred to Alana. Now that you mention, it I haven't used her middle name in scolding either. I do with my other two. I never really noticed that before. huh

October 30, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterSarah

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